Tools for Intentional Living – Dr. J. Nickens

Are you having a difficult time finding a partner?

 Sometimes a person is looking for a “match” – someone just like him or her, who likes and dislikes the all of the same things and who will not present too much challenge to one’s preferences and beliefs.

Other times a person may be looking for a partner who is a good “fit” – someone who complements and enhances, and who may compensate for their deficits.

This little illustrated story, by Shel Silvestein, is a sweet and telling tale of partnering, and offers another perspective.  I hope you enjoy it, and take the time to consider its life-lesson.

http://www.osorhan.com/bigo/index.php
  (there may be a message “website cannot be found” – just continue to click on “next” under the drawing)

If you’re having trouble with finding a romantic partner, perhaps the problem is how you view “partnering.”  Consider seeing a professional therapist to discover whether (or not) you may need to make some personal changes that will make it more likely you’ll find someone who can roll with you!

Find yourself first, then when your “vision” is clear,  look for your hoped-for partner. 

Call today for an appointment.