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	<title>Comments for Tools for Intentional Living - Dr. J. Nickens</title>
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		<title>Comment on Hellhole&#8230; the one we put ourselves in. by Anonymous</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 04:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for your thoughtful comments. I believe that active self-awareness and responsive empathy are the keys to creating a world where we all can learn, grow and thrive.  We each can spend more time practicing these attributes and encouraging others to do the same, starting with those who we touch and who touch us every day.
Take good care, of yourself, others and the planet.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your thoughtful comments. I believe that active self-awareness and responsive empathy are the keys to creating a world where we all can learn, grow and thrive.  We each can spend more time practicing these attributes and encouraging others to do the same, starting with those who we touch and who touch us every day.<br />
Take good care, of yourself, others and the planet.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hellhole&#8230; the one we put ourselves in. by Tim</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 10:29:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The evidence of &quot;Spiritual Sickness&quot; is is being mistaken for any number of clinical malady&#039;s which would have symptoms closely resembling this all pervasive corrosion of &quot;one&quot; of the three components that would give us the ability to call ourselves &quot;Human&quot; and assumed as physical healthy, mentally sound individuals who have a sense of fairness as well as a sense of compassion for those (Who lack it) Missing a common thread called by many names between us is the cause of a sort of epidemic of spirit sickness which also has a cumulative effect on a species and translates out from there. to all other inhabitants of the planet, and then the planet it&#039;s self. The Mind , Body, and Spirit are the three parts that can&#039;t be seperated or ignored. The Spiritual aspect is the one most likely to fall into disrepair due to neglect and that neglect can be allowed to become more and more pronounced if it is helped along with a mental defense that seems to have outlived it&#039;s purpose called &quot;Denile&quot; This all a wordy way of saying the same thing alcoholic/Drug addicts commonly suffer from. The problem is that  addict/alcoholics know they have a soul sickness and become willing to address it. Normal people generally don&#039;t suffer the ugliness and fairly swift consequences that land in these peoples lives on a regular basis. The ability to disregard these becomes intolerable as well as possibley &quot;Life Threatening&quot; so it becomes obvious to them. What I&#039;m worried about is the portion of the population that only suffer an ocassional pang of a mildly guilty conscience, or none at all. How could the rest of society be deferred to a practical solution when it is evident to me that they are void of the mind set it takes because the consequenses are nowhere near as direct as those brought on by drug and alcohol abuse. What now?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The evidence of &#8220;Spiritual Sickness&#8221; is is being mistaken for any number of clinical malady&#8217;s which would have symptoms closely resembling this all pervasive corrosion of &#8220;one&#8221; of the three components that would give us the ability to call ourselves &#8220;Human&#8221; and assumed as physical healthy, mentally sound individuals who have a sense of fairness as well as a sense of compassion for those (Who lack it) Missing a common thread called by many names between us is the cause of a sort of epidemic of spirit sickness which also has a cumulative effect on a species and translates out from there. to all other inhabitants of the planet, and then the planet it&#8217;s self. The Mind , Body, and Spirit are the three parts that can&#8217;t be seperated or ignored. The Spiritual aspect is the one most likely to fall into disrepair due to neglect and that neglect can be allowed to become more and more pronounced if it is helped along with a mental defense that seems to have outlived it&#8217;s purpose called &#8220;Denile&#8221; This all a wordy way of saying the same thing alcoholic/Drug addicts commonly suffer from. The problem is that  addict/alcoholics know they have a soul sickness and become willing to address it. Normal people generally don&#8217;t suffer the ugliness and fairly swift consequences that land in these peoples lives on a regular basis. The ability to disregard these becomes intolerable as well as possibley &#8220;Life Threatening&#8221; so it becomes obvious to them. What I&#8217;m worried about is the portion of the population that only suffer an ocassional pang of a mildly guilty conscience, or none at all. How could the rest of society be deferred to a practical solution when it is evident to me that they are void of the mind set it takes because the consequenses are nowhere near as direct as those brought on by drug and alcohol abuse. What now?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Loving Beyond Your Means? by John Nickens, PhD</title>
		<link>http://jnphd.com/2011/03/28/loving-beyond-your-means/#comment-342</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John Nickens, PhD]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 19:37:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are so right. I would only add that each person must make this decision for themselves, and in congruence with their own values, thoughts, feelings and intentions.


Thank you for your thoughtful comment.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are so right. I would only add that each person must make this decision for themselves, and in congruence with their own values, thoughts, feelings and intentions.</p>
<p>Thank you for your thoughtful comment.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Loving Beyond Your Means? by C.X.Love</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[C.X.Love]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 12:50:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think there&#039;s a huge difference between forgiveness and stupidity...you obviously have to forgive someone to be able to move on and heal but that does not always mean staying with them when you&#039;re in a relationship...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think there&#8217;s a huge difference between forgiveness and stupidity&#8230;you obviously have to forgive someone to be able to move on and heal but that does not always mean staying with them when you&#8217;re in a relationship&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Gambling Problems #4 &#8211; Resources for Help by Harry</title>
		<link>http://jnphd.com/2010/08/31/gambling-problems-4-resources-for-help/#comment-333</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Harry]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2011 14:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the helpful links.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the helpful links.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Leaning in to vulnerability. by jamie showkeir</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[jamie showkeir]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 01:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[john, this is very meaningful to us, given your prowess for bringing out the best in people and shining the light, in a loving way, so people can find the best in themselves. thank you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>john, this is very meaningful to us, given your prowess for bringing out the best in people and shining the light, in a loving way, so people can find the best in themselves. thank you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Quotes for Intentional Living &#8211; 6/05/10 by cristina</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 15:18:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[such a nice qoutes.,keep it  up]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>such a nice qoutes.,keep it  up</p>
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		<title>Comment on Men and Mental Health by outboundlife</title>
		<link>http://jnphd.com/2009/05/22/men-and-mental-health/#comment-211</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[outboundlife]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Oct 2010 23:45:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is there an update to the statistics with the prolonged job loss in America and increased anxiety.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is there an update to the statistics with the prolonged job loss in America and increased anxiety.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Quotes for Intentional Living &#8211; 9/25/10 by John Nickens, PhD</title>
		<link>http://jnphd.com/2010/09/25/quotes-for-intentional-living-92510/#comment-206</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John Nickens, PhD]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Oct 2010 14:51:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, it&#039;s amazing when we consider all those who have lifted us, and giving thanks as well as expressing gratitude only lifts us again!  Thank you for responding.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, it&#8217;s amazing when we consider all those who have lifted us, and giving thanks as well as expressing gratitude only lifts us again!  Thank you for responding.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Quotes for Intentional Living &#8211; 9/25/10 by John Nickens, PhD</title>
		<link>http://jnphd.com/2010/09/25/quotes-for-intentional-living-92510/#comment-205</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John Nickens, PhD]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Oct 2010 14:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for your thoughtful comment.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your thoughtful comment.</p>
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