Tools for Intentional Living – Dr. J. Nickens

How do you get to know about someone relatively quickly?  It’s not always easy to meet new friends or new romantic partners, and when you do you may be uncertain of what questions will give you a glimpse into the person’s values and beliefs.

In a previous post ["Getting To Know You; Getting To Know All About You" - posted on 8/28/09] I offered some questions that were suggested by clients and by colleague Jamie Showkeir at Henning and Showkeir Associates (www.henning-showkier.com).

Recently two more questions were posed by clients during sessions that focused on the issue on on-line dating, and how to find out about prospective dates.  Here then are two additional suggestions.  If you are interested in the full list of questions, please see the noted  post for the original list.

Q:  If you had to lose most of your physical senses, which two would you keep and why?

Q:  If you had to be a particular book, which book would you choose?  This question of course was inspired by the story Fahrenheit 451.

If you have any illuminating questions to contribute, please reply to this post with your suggestions.